Going to a Brisbane adult lounge can be a fun experience, but it can turn awkward if you behave like a douche. Some people have the wrong understanding when it comes to touching, talking, and generally being around exotic dancers. Then again, nobody is being taught proper etiquette in adult establishments at the university. Here is a few general guidelines as to how you can have a memorable, relaxing, and enjoyable night.
For those who will be going to a gentlemen’s club for the first time, trying to chat up with the strippers can be a challenge. The rule of thumb is just not to be rude to her, even if she is half-naked and waving her butt in front of your face.
Avoid using slang or crude language when referring to her body. The same goes for any dirty talk or sexual innuendos, unless she initiates it. Personal questions, such as her real name or where she lives, are not advisable either.
Preferably, compliment her on her performance on the stage or pole if you really want to say something. If you notice that she doesn’t want to talk, respect her boundaries. Don’t even try asking her out for a date, unless she outright tells you that she’s interested in seeing you outside her shift.
As to whether it’s okay to touch an exotic dancer or not, the answer will depend on her preferences and on the establishment she works for. Some places allow light touching as long as permission has been asked beforehand. Some strippers would rather not be caressed at all, and you might get kicked out for your trouble.
When hiring a private dancer for a bachelor party, ask the Brisbane adult lounge prior to the event if they’re okay with touching or not. A few are cool with it in exchange for money or to encourage more tips, but you should never assume.
The stripper might place her hands on your body during a lap dance, yet that doesn’t mean that you’re allowed to let your hands wander too. Just wait for her to guide you.
You must always bear in mind that women are often in the stripping business for the money. There are special cases wherein they’re in the biz to dance or show off her body. However, not everyone is like that.
By tipping a dancer, you’re telling her that you appreciate her effort and her skill, so don’t hesitate to do so. As to when you should give the tip, throughout the performance is your best bet. Giving a large amount? Break it into smaller amounts, so it will last until her dance has ended.
You’ll want to start tipping early on as it can sometimes motivate the stripper to perform better and more enthusiastically. This is because she feels that you appreciate her work and art and would like to show you more of what she can do.
To sum it all up: just be a gentleman towards the exotic dancers wherever and whenever you go to a Brisbane adult lounge. They will surely like you more that way.